My marriage was a miracle in more ways than many know. It was a marriage that I'm sure when it started many thought it would not survive. It was a marriage that survived many troubles, many hard times, much pain but I believe God used everything we went through to keep our marriage together. I'm not going to lie to anyone and say we had the perfect marriage because we did not. However, one thing we knew deep down inside was that even during those difficult times - we knew we had each other, and before coming to God, we just knew we couldn't leave each other. Once we came to know God as our Lord and our marriage went through another difficult period, we then understood that God had a plan for us and it was because of that plan that we could not leave each other. In the secular world people would call it soulmates but God calls it "becoming one". We had a love and understanding of each other that was from God. It's as if God had knit us together. God's plan to use our marriage did not end with Frank's death. No, Frank's death did not catch God off guard and His plans stand firm. I've seen God still using our marriage to minister and bless others so the work continues even with Frank's passing.
It really upsets me and hurts when I see what Satan is doing with so many Christian marriages. How I wish more than anything that my husband was here with me and yet I see so many married couples giving up on each other. I ask why - can God not fix their marriage. I'm convinced that God can do all things but sometimes it takes lots of time, a time of long suffering, a time of dying to self and just waiting on God - that's a hard thing to do. I know because I was there but God gave us the victory. Now that Frank is gone I think back, imagine if I had given up what my life and my daughter's life would be like right now. Our lives would have been full of pain, guilt, anger, and probably unforgiveness.
If you are at that place of contemplating divorce, please don't get upset with me because of what I'm saying but instead seek God and see what he's telling you to do. The truth is that the bible says in Malachi "God hates divorce". That's what God word says and I just believe the word. Divorce is not God's plan for any marriage - it destroys the family unit and changes everyone in the whole family. Again, I know because I am a product of divorce. God can resurrect a dead marriage. God is the God of restoration. God did a miracle in my marriage and trust me he doesn't have any quota when it comes to miracles. I don't know why I've been led to write this today but I guess God's going to have someone read this who needs to and I just pray that God, through this blog, speaks to someones heart and they turn away from those thoughts of divorce and instead look to God for a miracle in their marriage. If that's you and you want to talk please feel free to write me at [email protected]. I get lots of SPAM at this emai address so please put the words "blog contact" in the subject line so I'll make sure to read your e-mail.
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AuthorI'm Dee, wife of the late Frank Nunez. I'm a woman of God who's depending on God to pull us through this loss. Archives
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