Almost two years later and sometimes this silence is deathening. Woke up today really missing my honey bun. The change in seasons is always difficult because it's like a beginning of something but it's the beginning of something without that special person. In my case that special person was truly my best friend.
All of you that are married or one day will be married, it's important that your spouse be your best friend. Best friends stay together through thick and thin. Best friends enjoy each other's company and encourage each other. I remember when my honey bunny first got into Aikido. Oh my goodness he just couldn't get enough of it and at first I was resenting it. Then he said to me "hon, can you just support me with this cause I really enjoy it". Well at that point I realized that I was only being jealous because he was doing something he enjoyed without me. So I started to support him and then he was able to start a little dojo (martial arts center) and I helped him with the dojo. You have to show your honey that you're interested in what they do and encourage them cause it's not all about you.
Anyway, love your honey bun, don't take him/her for granted and always be his/her best friend. Your marriage will be so much better.
All of you that are married or one day will be married, it's important that your spouse be your best friend. Best friends stay together through thick and thin. Best friends enjoy each other's company and encourage each other. I remember when my honey bunny first got into Aikido. Oh my goodness he just couldn't get enough of it and at first I was resenting it. Then he said to me "hon, can you just support me with this cause I really enjoy it". Well at that point I realized that I was only being jealous because he was doing something he enjoyed without me. So I started to support him and then he was able to start a little dojo (martial arts center) and I helped him with the dojo. You have to show your honey that you're interested in what they do and encourage them cause it's not all about you.
Anyway, love your honey bun, don't take him/her for granted and always be his/her best friend. Your marriage will be so much better.